It was your birthday last week and I was grateful that two people (male and female) actually remembered it. Personally, there are two reasons why people remember your birthday after so long. They either live in regret or truly place you in their hearts. I wonder if one day I ever left Earth, how many would actually think of my existence or at least - my birthday? Undeniably, famous starlets in the entertainment industry (such as Teresa Teng, Anita Mui, etc) have people to mark their death anniversaries each year because they left an impact on others.
YES..Impact is one great deal that I think I will strive to achieve for. Not on how many people remember how wealthy I am, but how I have left indelible footprints in at least, a few people lives. Guess that most are familiar with the story of Christmas Carol. It would be quite sad if someone becomes like Scrooge and only be reminded of how his or her life had being devoid of humanity, compassion or happiness when he or she finally died.
Anyway, in terms of reciprocity, should I return shit with shit?
You know some people really give you crappy and rubbish stuffs (cuz they can't be bothered) sometimes. You know you can't change them and they still display this air of arrogance, defiance or even "can't-be-bothered" attitude. I want them to emphathize or even for me to empathize them or the situation, but there just seems to be a barrier. So what I normally do is choose to IGNORE. Usually, I leave them alone for good or quit discussion with them since there isn't any productive or meaningful discussion in place. Seriously, I don't know whether this is right.
Oh, also I think the area near my workplace is a food haven for lunch! North Canal road, South Bridge road, and even Market street. Cuz every time when it's 11:30 am, we'll be online discussing where to eat.
YES..Impact is one great deal that I think I will strive to achieve for. Not on how many people remember how wealthy I am, but how I have left indelible footprints in at least, a few people lives. Guess that most are familiar with the story of Christmas Carol. It would be quite sad if someone becomes like Scrooge and only be reminded of how his or her life had being devoid of humanity, compassion or happiness when he or she finally died.
Anyway, in terms of reciprocity, should I return shit with shit?
You know some people really give you crappy and rubbish stuffs (cuz they can't be bothered) sometimes. You know you can't change them and they still display this air of arrogance, defiance or even "can't-be-bothered" attitude. I want them to emphathize or even for me to empathize them or the situation, but there just seems to be a barrier. So what I normally do is choose to IGNORE. Usually, I leave them alone for good or quit discussion with them since there isn't any productive or meaningful discussion in place. Seriously, I don't know whether this is right.
Oh, also I think the area near my workplace is a food haven for lunch! North Canal road, South Bridge road, and even Market street. Cuz every time when it's 11:30 am, we'll be online discussing where to eat.
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